Ways to Tell if Your Lover Loves You | GADSTIME

Ways to Tell if Your Lover Loves You | GADSTIME
Ways to Tell if Your Lover Loves You | GADSTIME

There is no guaranteed way to know if a person truly loves you, but there are a few signs to read in order to figure out what is on the mind of your loved one. If you would like to know if the person you love truly loves you back, then you have to pay attention on how the person acts, what they say, and what they do when you are together. 

See if the person can act naturally around you. Part of being in love means being completely open to the other person. If you find yourself seeing a whole different side that the person doesn't show the public, then that may be love. For instance, if your partner is pretty serious or polite in public, but shows a more goofy and silly side when you're alone, then they are really opening up to you and loves you.

Notice if the person gives you googly eyes. Though this may be silly, check out your loved one's face the next time you see them. 

Do they look at you in a goofy, watery, silly and adorable way that can only be described as "googly-eyed"? You will know it when you see it. You won't get this look all the time you can spot it in the morning, or randomly across the dinner table.

Ask yourself if the person is upset when you are. If you are suffering unbelievable emotional pain or are just bummed because you have the flu, then this should rub off on the person who loves you. 

If they truly love you, then they'll absorb some of your negative emotions and will be very upset because they'll want you to feel better as soon as you can.

Notice if the person talks positively about your future together. If the person really loves you, then the idea of you being in their future is an absolute given, not something that they would ever have anxiety or uncertainty about. 

If the person routinely talks about what you're going to do in the future, about what your lives will look like one, two, or even ten years in the future together, then they are probably in love with you.


Determine if the person means every "I love you". Remember that there is a big difference between "Love ya!" and "I love you." If your special someone really loves you and tells you this much while looking into your eyes, sounding earnest, and not wanting anything from you, then it's likely that they really mean it.

See if the person really opens up to you. If your loved one really loves you, then they will really open up to you and tell you what they are thinking, feeling, fearing, and longing for. 

Expect to be missed when apart. If you and your loved one are apart, but they still text you, call you, or email you to let you know how much they miss you, then it means they can't imagine their life without you.


See if the person truly values your opinion. If the person truly loves you, then they'll care about what you think whether it's about their new pair of shoes or the political situation in your country.

Consider the nice things done for you. If the person truly loves you, then they'll do thoughtful things like put gas in your car when you're busy, do your food shopping for you, or bring you chicken soup when you're home sick.

See if the person always wants to be around you. Part of being in love is always wanting to be around the person you love, even if it's impractical.

Determine if the person truly understands you. True love is true understanding. Though it sounds lame, the person should really "get" you in order to love you.

 If the person actually understands your moods, knows what you want and what you don't want, and has an idea of what will make you happy before you may know it yourself, then that may be true love.

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